STARTS WITH SPARK OF ENERGY

 SEXUAL ENERGY

Many of us under estimate that there is a certain type of cosmic energy that starts the process of arousal or self pleasure. Scientifically, it has been measured through changes of respiration and blood pressure, accompany arousal. 

This sexual or erotic energy is a feeling that should be treated with attention and practiced in order to get your arousal mood and glands going. Unfortunately, this energy is typically underestimated. This type of energy causes the spark of attraction and flow of arousal moments. It's the clashing waves of orgasm and wild bliss of divine union. 

This sexual or erotic energy is usually known to us as passion, lust or chemistry. You can also learn to amplify this energy and become used to transmitting or exchanging it through precise physical touch. Learning to respect and honour this energy is the key to an incredible sexual experience. The energy cannot be controlled, but you can learn to open yourself and ride the tide of its power. The arousal power that is. Remember, the use of different tools to get to this sexual energy such as breathe, massage, sound, and pelvic movements all matters. Treat it wisely!

GATEKEEPER AND GUARD OF YOUR GATES OF PLEASURE

 

YOU ARE THE PROTECTOR OF YOUR VAGINA

Ladies it is okay to not accept penetration if you are not feeling it! The key to your arousal is to be in tune to your readiness and response. 

It does not matter if your male partner is ready, if you are not ready or not feeling it then, do not accept any penetration. 

Always pay attention to your own arousal and readiness...!

Of course, even if you are in the middle of intercourse and you are not feeling comfortable or excited, then, it is time to end it. Why force it, if you know there is nothing wonderful that may or will happen.

You can make yourself a rule when to 'jump of ship!' If your arousal level is just dropping or not reaching that excitement level, time to stop. Your vagina will definitely thank you!:) 

You can find other sexy ways to play such as oral or a tantric massage to prepare your complete self to get into that lovely arousal stage. 

UNBREAKABLE LOVE

 

The bridge of 'Love Locks'

In Paris, France, one can imagine to be the ideal place to fall in love or celebrate love between a partner by walking alone the promenades or bridges of Paris. A fairy tale love story that many couples would dream to live it. This fairy tale of love becomes even more interesting when the idea of locking their love on a bridge in the most romantic city in the world will symbolise the success of a couple's love through eternity.                         

'Love Locks bridge' - Pont des Arts bridge

The Pont des Arts is a pedestrian bridge that crosses River Seine, in Paris. It is nestled between the Louvre Palace and the Institut de France, and is 155 meters long and 10 meters wide. It is considered to be one of the most romantic bridges in the world.

Originally the design of the bridge was to be a social atmosphere for pedestrians crossing the bridge to mingle and interact. The bridge engineers designed for that the bridge to be a suspended garden. The bridge would include banks of flowers, benches, and even trees.

It sustained damage from bombardments from World War I and World War II as well as boat collisions. Since 1975, the Pont des Arts has been listed as a national historic monument. 

The current Pont des Arts was built between 1981 and 1984. The bridge was preserved from its original style and has been named a UNESCO Parisian landmark.

Redesigned and rebuilt bridge of Love

The current bridge was rebuilt and inaugurated in 1984.

The Pont des Arts has been for photographers and artists to create their artwork. It had has become popular spot for picnics.

'Love Locks - becomes a Love Tradition'

The idea of a 'love lock' first appeared in the poem named “Prayer for Love” by Serbian poetess Desanka Maksimovic. The poem describes a tragic love story that took place shortly before the First World War. The poem describes the story of a young couple in love that secretly met every night at Ljubavi bridge in the Serbian ciy called Vrnjačka Banja. The young soldier travelled to Greece and meets another woman that ends up being the love of his life. His first love finds out about his infidelity and she dies of heartbreak. 

The local people use the belief in superstition in order to protect the fate of their love with their partners. In other words, local women started hanging love locks to the bridge where the woman died, eventually considered the Bridge of Love, for the purpose of safeguarding their love with their partners. 

'Modern Love Lock popularity'

The popularity of this 'Love Lock' trend took off after the release of the Italian movie - “Ho Voglia di Te” (I Want You) in 2007. It was inspired by the novel, from Italian author Federico Moccia, which was published a year before. There was one scene in the movie where the protagonists lock their love by attaching a padlock to a lamp post at the Ponte Milvo in Rome and throwing the key into the Tiber river.

In 2008, the first padlocks of love appeared in Paris. Since, the Pont des Arts pedestrian bridge had a romantic location it was dubbed the 'Love Lock' bridge in Paris. 

Soon it became a tradition for couples to visit the 'Love Lock' bridge and to symbolize their eternal love by writing their names and a date on a padlock, attaching it to the 'Love Lock' bridge steel frame and then, throwing the key into the Seine river.

It became a much-loved tradition and that soon spread around the world. Many lovers continued to arrive at the bridge prepared with an engraved padlock of their names and attaching them to the bridge. They would then throw the key into the river as a sign of their unbreakable devotion to each other.

The Unbreakable Love Lock Comes to an End

In 2014, the 'Love Lock' bridge in Paris started to come to end because of the damage weight of the pad locks on the bridge. It was estimated there were over 700,000 locks in total, which came to a total added weight of 45 tonnes or the equivalent of 20 elephants. The grilles of the Pont des Arts - 'Love Lock' bridge were not strong enough to carry hundreds of kilos in padlocks.

On June 1, 2015, the grilles were removed and eventually replaced with glass panels to prevent history from repeating itself in order to preserve the Pont des Arts.

Unfortunately, other bridges that had this 'Love Lock' craze succumbed to the same fate by removing the grilles and adding glass panels on bridges such as: The Pont de l’Archevêché at the southern tip of the Île de la Cité and the Passerelle Léopold-Sédar-Senghor that connects the Orsay Museum to the Tuileries Garden.

Unfortunately, love has it adventures even if its unbreakable!